Go Ahead, Have a Good Cry: 5 Reasons Why It's Good for You


Researchers have proven what many caregivers have already figured out on their own: sometimes there's nothing like a good cry to make you feel better. Crying is cathartic.

Neuroscientist and tear researcher Dr. William H. Frey II, PhD, the director of the Alzheimer's Research Center at Regions Hospital in St. Paul, Minnesota, has spent over 15 years studying crying and tears.

Research shows that:

  • 85% of women and 73% of men felt less sad and angry after crying.
  • On average, women cry 47 times a year, men cry 7 times a year.
  • Crying bouts last 6 minutes on average.
  • Tears are more often shed between 7 and 10 p.m.

According to Frey, "crying is not only a human response to sorrow and frustration, it's a healthy one." Crying is a natural way to reduce emotional stress that, left unchecked, has negative physical affects on the body, including increasing the risk of cardiovascular disease and other stress-related disorders.

How Crying is Good for You

  1. It Relieves Stress
    Because unalleviated stress can increase our risk for heart attack and damage certain areas of our brain, humans' ability to cry has survival value, Frey says.
  2. Crying Lowers Blood Pressure
    Crying has been found to lower blood pressure and pulse rate immediately following therapy sessions during which patients cried and raged.
  3. Tears Remove Toxins
    In addition, Frey says tears actually remove toxins from the body. Tears help humans remove chemicals that build up during emotional stress.
  4. It Reduces Manganese
    The simple act of crying also reduces the body's manganese level, a mineral which affects mood and is found in up to 30 times greater concentration in tears than in blood serum.
  5. Emotional Crying Means You're Human
    While the eyes of all mammals are moistened and soothed by tears, only human beings shed tears in response to emotional stress. Emotional expression acknowledges the feelings you're having. Emotions motivate us to empathize, coordinate and work as a unit to best survive

So, next time you feel those tears welling up or that lump in your throat, go ahead, have a good cry.

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My dear mother always said it was important to have "a good cry" that you always felt better after. She was so wise and I miss her so much.
I used to think crying was a sign of weakness. As many of you, I have suffered many hardships in my life. After my grandma passed away, who I was caregiving, I cried like never before. She was my world. I have/had no kids, worked fulltime and cared for her. It was devistating. For whatever reason, the dams opened up and I cry so easily now. I have become the most sensitive person I know. I feel like a cry baby. I get very emotional very quickly. I think it's from so many years of keeping everything pent up. I can't says it make me feel better but a 1-2 minute cry almost weekly makes me wonder if I'm nuts. Blessings
I had a good cry just this morning. My mother who lives with Alzheimer's Disease called my cell phone this morning to tell me that there was a strange man in her house who slept over last night. She didn't recognize that I was the mysterious stranger. I am approaching my 64th birthday. Not being recognized by your own mother is heartbreaking. Crying didn't do a thing to ease my sadness and sense of loss.