On getting the O.K. from my wife's siblings.
My wife's sister and my brother-in-law never called or visited my wife. Neither has her extended family for that matter. So I was taken by surprise when her sister called me and asked about her sisters situation . She then asked for directions to the A.L..
The aids told me that they walked in and announced " She doesn't belong here," and walked out! I'm not surprised because that's the way they are and thats the way they'll always be.