I know we all have so many problems that this one seems small. My husband had to quit driving a yr and a half ago because he got lost a couple of times and the kids were worried about everything about his driving. I rode with him daily and I didn't have a problem with it. But anyway the dr said it was time for him to quit driving. So I drive. He is such a back seat driver that he makes me a nervous wreck and mad as h*ll too. He tells me which lane to get in and when, where to turn, when to stop for a red light, when to go etc and he is so ugly about it like I don't have any sense. He hasn't always been this way, it has just started the last 3 months.. Today he made me so mad that 2 times I pulled off the road and stopped the car and said you drive. He refused so we just sat there. I am not a bad driver and I do the best I can. He told me I should try to get better. I'm 70. I told him today I wasn't going to let him ride with me anymore but of course I am because I can't leave him at home alone .Although I would like to do that for about 30 minutes to see if it would scare him and make him treat me better. I know I can't change his behavior so how do I learn to let it just roll off of me? I know this problem is insignificant compared to some of the problems we have but my whole life revolves around taking care of him.