I don't know what to do. frustrated and angry.
Two years ago I moved my dad in with my family. He has multiple health issues, vision problems, and is mentally retarded. I did not want to be responsible for his care, but there is no one else willing or able to do it, and he cannot live alone. The more I do for him the worse he treats me. Today he told me he hates my husband and isn't afraid to kill someone. I'm not worried that he'll kill my husband, but I don't want to deal with him talking like that. It irritates me and stresses me out. He makes up things to be angry about, he has tantrums and won't speak to me (or my husband and kids) for weeks at a time, and he constantly criticizes my parenting. The bottom line -- I don't want him living with us anymore, but there's no other place to move him to. I just want him gone. Out of my house, out of my life. I'd be perfectly content to never see him or speak to him again. I didn't speak to him for three years before the responsibility for his care was basically dropped in my lap. I'd be happy to go back to the days of not speaking to him. Moving him in with us was a mistake I've been paying for for two years and I see no end in sight.