My husband has two brothers. They love their parents and, when asked, would do anything to help them. However, they refuse to talk to each other about what their parents need or to plan ahead in any way about this. Sometimes, my mother-in-law mentions things to me (e.g., she's not happy with her current Medicare coverage, which was set up by one son who isn't really doing anything to help her change it). I tell my husband about it and suggest that he and his brothers talk, but they never do - about this or any issue, ranging from minor to very major. My sister-in-law tries, as well, but her husband resents her bringing these things up to him. Anyone have this issue? and advice on how to improve the situation?