I am the youngest of 3 adult children. By default mom has moved in with me, my husband, son and grandson, She was having extreme cognitive issues at the time and wanted to move in with us.
She has regained some of cognitive ability and resents being here. I was always her least favorite and with onset of Alzheimer's she keeps reminding me. She is hateful and acts out when my husband is not around.
She wants to move in with my sister who has her own health issues. Mom needs someone to watch over her.
Who is responsible to ensure her care? My brother has basically washed his hands of the situation.