My husband has just been diagnosed with Vascular Dementia and my MIL was diagnosed with ALZ earlier this year. SIL has decided to take over from another state. However, she has resigned as 2nd Agent for MIL regarding Finances and Health. I am not an Agent but am awaiting the court ordered Guardianship of MIL to take over and juggling care for both people. SIL called to tell me she 'wanted mom's jewelry' and my husband's jewelry when they died. She also tells me how she wants me to take care of her mom. I gently remind her that she signed off on inheritance when she asked an attorney to become Guardian for her mother. Do I just tell her what I think? Or just listen. Or just hang up on her and say good riddance?