I am 65 years old and have been taking care of my disabled Veteran husband since he suffered a massive stroke in 2011. Recently, my mom fell and broke her hip and has been diagnosed with severe dementia. She was released from rehab over a month ago and sent home since she could not afford to stay past 21 days in the facility. I have been trying my best to care for her, but she is killing me physically as well as emotionally. I can no longer run between her and my husband every day and night. This situation is causing me to neglect my husband and his needs as well as becoming short tempered with him when none of this is his fault. I've tried finding any information I can on what to do about my mom's care. I cannot do this much longer and have no idea what to do.