My father is definitely incapable of taking care of him self! He had brain surgery 17 years ago and now has completely fallen apart!! He can’t drive or cook or make sensible financial decisions. He has had one of his kids caring for him for the past 7 years! We are all at our wits end and he refuses to sign power of attorney! He is not in his right mind!! He talks all day about how he is a millionaire and then gradually turned to saying he is related to people on tv!! Has seizures but refuses to take the pills! Or go to the doctor to get any!! He is very mean and I’ve just about exhausted my options! What do I do?!