Dad and Mom always treated me and my brother equally. I am one year older. We are co-POAs, and it is stipulated we must agree on everything. Unfortunately, we don't agree on practically anything! Politics is a screaming match. We have totally opposite views. (although that doesn't have much to do with Mom.) She will be 95 in July. She still lives in the house where we grew up. She is a hoarder of things...not garbage, very organized, lots of stuff in marked boxes, etc. When the time comes, I want to have an Estate Sale professionally handled, then sell the house. He wants to try to sell off the collections of stuff, then put a couple hundred thousand into the renovation of the house, then try to sell afterward. I don't think we would get much out of the time and money invested, and the area has had several buyers in the area come in and just raze the houses and rebuild their own house creations on the land. I hate to consider this, but I have an awful feeling I may end up with an attorney..... Anyone's thoughts???