My mom is in a great facility, but we're paying for skilled nursing that she doesn't need, and she's an hour and a half away from me. I'm considering moving her to memory care/personal care closer to my home. But am worried about the strain the change would put on her. In the end I think we will all be much better off, but want to reduce her distress as much as possible. I can't really talk to her about it, she won't remember or understand.