Looking for resources or an insight of what should I "expect" as my father grows older. Are there steps I should be taken at this time to prepare us. My dad has recently (3 years ago) become widowed, I (no legal document) handle the vast majority of his affairs. Although my father is competent & in good health and I "oversee" his decisions, I found this task of decision making is becoming more difficult as he ages. We recently discussed his Last Arrangements; Death & although he is undecided having a Military funeral opposed to a traditional one, I found it difficult at his age to obtain any Term Life policies to cover the latter. So any help or directions would be greatly appreciated. (He is a member of the VA & does receive benefits, to what extent is still undetermined on my part. Thank you greatly!