whats the most difficult thing? My dad is 83 and has dementia although he is still active and physically able. he can be stubborn but usually can be won around by bossing him or by cajoling.
My mother is 87 and a total nightmare, but she is terrified of how my dad has become. she has a difficult personality, a persecution complex and narcisstic behaviours.She is untrusting and suspicious. I can predict some of the issues ill have with her but its a huge decision and I may have to give up my part time job to do it. I would have support from my siblings but the day to day care and practicalities as well as the day to day difficulties will be my burden. My parents have been very good to me and I feel its payback time now .but im scared of the unknown terriortory,. any advice appreciated. negative or positive welcome. thanks everybody!