I am 47 and came into a transitional point due to various circumststances (house fire) that made it a win win to move in with 80 year old parents with mild physical restrictions and one (Mother) with dementia. I try to treat them with love, respect, and dignity. They respond with bizarre rules, criticisms, and obsessions ....ranging from rude and very unmeritied. I am not helping as i could because they come up with reasons for me not to help ...the "its my house!" thing. They seem to resent me. E#ven irrrational fears.....for no reason my mother has begun to hide her purse and medicine . Is any of this normal? There is no history to merit it. There bank account was electronically hacked from out of state last week. My father insisted on dealing with the bank himself...they feel i am involved. I am becoming depressed and worried for my own mental health.