I am my Mom’s caregiver and I did not bring this up to her our Pastor did. I fully support her decision but my family said she is committing suicide. They also told me that this murder. I am so hurt and now I don’t know what to do.
I'd honor my mother's wishes and work hard to do what she wants to keep her comfortable. I might give succinct and sincere explanation one time to siblings and then let it alone. If the siblings are that ignorant, it's not likely you can change them. The Hospice social worker and clergy should be very helpful and give you much support moving forward.
Hospice is great at explaining just this type of conflict. Contact the Hospice you have chosen. Contact family members and have a meeting of minds. I think family will come to realize that.. Hospice will not deny medical treatment as long as it is not treatment for the condition that they are Hospice eligible. Hospice will provide support, supplies, a nurse in the home at least 1 time a week. CNA's at least 2 times a week to help with bathing, dressing, bed changes and a whole host of other things. A Social Worker if you want one A Chaplain if you want one. Therapies like Music, Art, Massage and if necessary Speech and Physical for a short time an to train family and caregivers. You will get supplies delivered, medications delivered, equipment like hospital bed, wheelchair, Hoyer Lift or Sit to Stand if needed. There is so much positive about Hospice that I can not imagine anyone not taking advantage of it. Hospice will be very willing to sit down and discuss any concerns any family member has.
Contact the Hospice you have chosen.
Contact family members and have a meeting of minds.
I think family will come to realize that..
Hospice will not deny medical treatment as long as it is not treatment for the condition that they are Hospice eligible.
Hospice will provide support, supplies, a nurse in the home at least 1 time a week.
CNA's at least 2 times a week to help with bathing, dressing, bed changes and a whole host of other things.
A Social Worker if you want one
A Chaplain if you want one.
Therapies like Music, Art, Massage and if necessary Speech and Physical for a short time an to train family and caregivers.
You will get supplies delivered, medications delivered, equipment like hospital bed, wheelchair, Hoyer Lift or Sit to Stand if needed.
There is so much positive about Hospice that I can not imagine anyone not taking advantage of it.
Hospice will be very willing to sit down and discuss any concerns any family member has.