I currently work full-time. Mom needs lots of help around the house. I am renting now and lease ends April. Wanted to buy a house....daughter suggested to move in with mom. I would have to retire...long commute to work. Soooo- either work pretty much the rest of my life and have my own home (mom said she'd lend me money which I don't want to do) and feel bad that she's not getting the help she needs (she still works and drives) or move in with her retire work part-time? Her house is huge and has 3 levels. We get along fine but I can tell loss of hearing....more limited mobility etc.......what to do?