My grandmother is 94, and she has stayed in relatively good health up until two years ago when she started having heart problems. She was still driving herself around town until 3 months back. She has suddenly started going downhill. Two months ago she moved into an apartment complex for seniors. This week she's been in the hospital, and now her health may be too bad for her to return to the apartment. I don't want her to spend her last days/weeks/months in a nursing home. We have always been close. Right now I live in a different town than she does. I would like to consider moving her back into her own home and moving in with her. I have children (age 1 to 19) who would be with me, which I worry would disrupt the quiet she's used to. I could also find a home near hers, but I worry that she will need someone there with her 24/7 at this point, so renting a place close to her is not really enough. My mother and uncle make legal decisions for her. I want to ask their permission to do this for her. Can anyone with experience give me advice. Are there other things I need to weigh into this decision?