My mother (68) has multiple medical issues. Dementia-diabetes-high blood pressure etc. Step dad takes care of here. My step dad that is 80yrs old takes care of her but its getting harder and harder for him. He moved her out of state last year because he wanted to go back to Kentucky where he is from. I frowned upon it because they were getting more help here . I am a nurse myself and do the best I can but I have a full time job . My step dad said things are getting worse and my mom wont do anything to help herself. she has a aide that comes once a week there to help her bathe otherwise she refuses too and a nurse once a month to change her catheter. My question is when do I decide it would be best to go get my mother and bring her back to Ohio possibly to stay with me or nursing home placement.??