I'm 35 and my wife and I we are taking care of my mother. She cannot walk and sits most of her time in the wheelchair. We have been taking care of her for about four years now. Everything has been fine so far, however, we are having the feeling lately that she is not exactly honest with us and that she is not telling us the truth about her well-being. Every time we ask her if everything was fine she confirms but we have the felling that she is not telling us everything.
We are afraid that she might not telling us when she has particular pain (she experiences back and stomachache regularly) and that she suffers without reason.
At this point we don't know what to do exactly. Do you have any suggestions?