My Mother suffered from a heart attack 2 months ago. She immediately needed a quadruple bypass and a pacemaker. After the bypass surgery, my Mother fell into a coma for 9 days. When she finally awakened, she new the family but could not talk or communicate very well. She was also on a breathing tube for 13 days due to her 40 years of smoking. To make a long story short, my Mother now lives with my husband, my daughter-20, and me. She has always been independent, living alone in her own home after her husband passed away 1 1/2 yrs ago. I have an older brother who suffers from mental illness and is not able to help. Anyway, it has been 2 weeks since my Mom has been home with us and it has been the hardest time of my life. I love her dearly but it has been a challenge to keep peace with my Mom. She doesn't like taking advice from me nor does she embrace my suggestions. She wants to move out already but she has been very forgetful and I am very concerned about her living alone. I have ready many of the discussions posted and they have been very helpful. I just want to have peace in our lives? Is that possible?