I'm a long-distance caregiver for an elderly cousin with middle-stage dementia who recently entered assisted living. Now I need to pack and close out her apartment. Any tips? The issues: What to send to her new room; what to keep (as her PoA); what to throw out, and how to throw it out. (Do I hire someone to take things to a thrift store, for instance?) And some things I'll want to send to other family members, but they all live in far-flung states -- what's the easiest way to get things from her place to our various homes? I'll have only a few days to sort and pack, and she has piles and piles of things to go through -- she was the keeper of our family's memorabilia, so I don't want to just ditch stuff without looking at it. Anyway, my head is spinning, so all tips appreciated!