My mom has been living with us for just about 5 months. She has had some undiagnosed mental issues prior to getting dementia. We took her in wholeheartedly and did the best we could. She had a stroke in February which hit her cognitive area of the frontal lobe which in turn made her dementia worse. She is a two person assist and a fall risk but is wheel chair bound at this point. She will be going to an AL nearby. It was a tough decision to make but it’s been made. I am looking for suggestions on how to go about it. Should we tell her prior to the day? Should we tell her there? In case any of you has gone through this, what did you find worked or possibly didn’t work? Thank you!