We have no life; my 90-year old father-in-law lives with us and I am his primary care giver. He is turning mean, is something of a hypochondriac and is falling down often in and out of the home. He doesn't drive; no exercise, only goes to the doctor when I get out my serious voice and is very negative and demanding; not to mention very distrustful of strangers.
My husband and I have no life; we can't go out to a ballgame, out to dinner let alone on a vacation. We're 54 & 57 and have been in this situation for 6 years. He won't entertain the thought of going into an assisted living center. I guess I'm just complaining; sorry.
He's also healthy as a horse, eats like a lumberjack and takes great pride in keeping a list of all the people he has known who have passed away.