My mom named me POA many years ago. She now has Alzheimer's and was living alone at home but is no longer capable. She went into the hospital and then into a nursing facility for rehab but once the medicare stops they are going to boot her out and said I have to send her home (where she cannot take care of herself) or move her to a memory care unit (which I am having trouble finding one who takes Medicaid). I work full time and single mom. I have no money to help here. My mom lives off social security. Someone suggested if I refuse to act as her POA that the state will make her a ward and take care of it all (getting her into a place to care for her since no one will help me now)...has anyone had any experience with that?