Hello, my husband is 56 yrs old. He’s 350lbs and has diabetis and heart failure. He has high blood pressure and his legs, feet and hands are swollen. Sometimes his feet are a purplish color. He can’t breath hardly at all and sometime I hear him wheezing when he’s breathing. He’s on a diuretic and toprol and ramipril for his bp and he’s on insulin which he abuses like crazy. He’s also takes synthroid. He still works everyday but it’s getting harder and harder on him everyday. His sleeping is god awful, I don’t know if it’s the alcohol that causes him to moan, groan, scream, cuss, talk in his sleep all night and he tosses and turns. The screaming he says is from back pain that he swears is the bed and I tell him it’s his weight not the bed. His Dr retired in October but he told him at that time that he was basically giving him 6 months before he has a heart attack or a stroke and this month marks his 6 month. Besides having blood test done he hasn’t had any test confirming his heart failure but his Dr told him the he knows he has heart failure along with cirrosis of the liver from his diabetis, his dr didn’t know he was also a alcoholic so I’m sure drinking isn’t helping his liver any. His drink of choice is vodka straight. He drinks every night but tries to hide it from me but I find his bottles all over the place. Anyways I’m just needing some advice on how to handle all this. I have no idea what to do. All I do is lay in bed at night listening to him trying to sleep and wandering if tonite the night he’s gonna have a heart attack. By the way he sleeps in a different room due to his snoring and other noises while he sleeps. Thank you.