My 75 year old SO is now in a SNF and having wonderful care. She has improved physically and mentally immensely since being there. Now she is crying, begging, promising ANYTHING if I will just get her out and bring her home. On the other hand, she doesn't believe there is anything wrong with her that pain medication can't handle. We went through this exact same scenario 4 months ago. It took less than 2 days for her to refuse any meds except pain med. She says that now it would be different. Past performance says no. She accuses me of not caring any more, punishing her, wanting to get rid of her. That is no where near the truth. I am totally alone without her and I miss her terribly. How can I convince her she needs the care she is receiving.