My dad is incontinent but is in denial. Years ago he took a medication for it, but won’t follow up on treatment for it, and refuses to wear any sort of pad. When he soils himself, he thinks no one can see it and denies that it has happened, blames it on a spill or dishwater, etc.
He has a long history of manipulation and is very prideful….. I’m stuck. A few times he has done this in public or at my house, and then sit on my sofa.
Its so weird to me that he’d rather have everyone know he has peed his pants vs getting some help with it.
Feedback, anyone? Thanks.