I live with my 80year old mother. She is going thru separation anxiety. I can't go in my room and close the door or go out to my activities (except to the grocery store). I tell her I'll be right back to talk to her or play a game with her,but most times I just want to stay in my room and read where the chair is comfortable and no distractions. How can I make this a workable arrangement without becoming resentful towards caring for her? She gets over our budget often, with tv purchases,even when I try to explain it to her.She can't get out very often because she has bad feet and knees,so we just sit around driving each other crazy. HELP!