Has anyone hired private caregivers "under the table", and if so, how did it work out? What advice would you have?

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Home healthcare agency is constantly leaving MIL with gaps in their caregiver's schedule for my FIL. He is completely paralyzed on one side and has moderate dementia. She is 89 and so is not able to care for him on her own.

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been doing caregiving for along time companies and other ways ..always worked out good for me..never had problems....so when turn 66 you can make any amount of money and it will not affect your social secuirty..anyone have a good way to go about pay cash only for a short lenght of time....live in md....
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AnnaDavid1036 Jul 27, 2018
Hey anyone can give me the number to call . I am looking for private job care giver . I don’t know who to call . I am apriciate for ur help. Thanks.
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If you have a domestic help (home health aide) you are not permitted to pay them and report with a 1099. All domestic help are employees (w2) not contractors (1099). Beware if you get caught.

And, you just might get caught. What happens when the aide loses her job with you? She files for unemployment...bang..you are caught. Or..she is injured and files workers comp? Again you are caught.

There is no incentive for the aide to not file for those benefits. If you haven't been doing payroll withholding...you are the only person paying all the back taxes and the fines. Your employee has no reason to not file.

Go read the IRS website...all domestic help are employees...not contractors.
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Agency vs private hire both have pros and cons.

Overall, you should do thorough investigation on your choice of agencies and private hire. Involve background checks, check references, interviews and resumes. In this healthcare field it's all about who you know and referrals. When you find a great agency or private hire pay them fair and don't be cheap. The term under the table is reference phrase to cash only. Most agencies have this option cash payment. Private hire mostly would prefer cash payment but personal checks are accepted also. Information provided by a Homecare agency owner in Michigan.
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I have been in home care giver for 10 years and I got a 1099 at the end of year I am on social security and 71 I can make all I want I did the bathroom ,fixed breakfast,and snacks made Dr. appointments .so I don't see that a private cargive is all tha bad.
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We had the most wonderful woman who worked for my Mom for several years. She even came in at 1am on New Years Day when my Mom had an emergency. You wouldn’t find an Agency that would do that. My Mom loved her dearly and still misses her. My mom’s health declined to the point she needed full time care. She was a treasure. We found her though some neighbors who had used her. If you find the right person I don’t see why it wouldn’t work.
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I have a 90 year old friend who gave me her financial power of attorney and another friend her medical POA. (Her children predeceased her, and she has no other nearby family and set up the POA documents without telling us.) She had a stroke and has some dementia. When she had the stroke is when we learned about the POA documents. She is not ready to give me bill-paying authority, so I actually have no access to her resources. I did submit the POA letter to her several banks and have developed a relationship with them. At any rate, her medical POA and neighbor did not like the agency initially hired for 24 hour care. Last month, they hired private caregivers. Home health workers are employees, not contractors, and a W2 is required. I've read a lot and had extensive conversations w/her accountant about setting up payroll. The private health workers may not be paying any taxes at all, won't reply to email asking how their business is set up, and the medical POA and neighbor have overruled my attempts to talk with the caregivers about setting up payroll. They have the client (my 90 year old friend) writing checks to the care givers. The IRS and other agencies have cracked down on this type of behavior. Long story (very long complex story) short, the medical POA and neighbor are doing as they see fit and imagine that in the future, when our friend can no longer pay her own bills, that I will also write checks under the table. Or that if the authorities ever become aware, that the back taxes and penalties will simply be paid out of her estate. The entire situation makes me very uncomfortable. Every time there is a financial emergency (she bounced a check she wrote to one of the caregivers for example), they all call me and ask me to fix the problem. But as soon as things calm down, they tell me I'm in the way. Any thoughts? It's a very strange situation.
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I had wonderful results, hiring and custom-training caregivers through a local, immigrant, community center in Jupiter, FL. I paid them cash directly. Most of these people were from Central and South American countries, and they were here on work visas. I found these people to be extremely hard-working, trustworthy, conscientious and - for what it's worth- church going. They were all very caring and good to my mother. In fact, some of them became like family to us.

I also privately hired one of my mother's aides from her rehab center (I asked her to slip me her number). She was great, because she already knew how to be a good and SAFE caregiver, so I didn't need to train her.

I realize this is referencing a very specific and local resource center in my neck of the woods, but you may want to look into something like it in your area.

PS. Because I wanted to avoid the scenario of ever finding that any of my mother's valuables were missing, I purchased a security deposit box at our bank and stored ALL jewelry, cash and small valuables in it BEFORE anyone started working in the house. It turned out that the people I hired were upstanding and honest, but there was no way of knowing that in advance of them working in my mother's house.
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Agencies treat caregivers bad and pay too little for caregivers t to be committed and consider client needs before theirs. Private caregivers are the best and know good people who can help whenever they need days off, and they mostly make it their responsibility to ensure who ever they bring offer best care. 

Of course most of private caregivers have worked for agencies or carelinx can hook u up with experienced and reliable caregivers, my grandma private caregiver never left us wondering who will look for her, as the person who has worked for agencies she have so relable fill ins

Now caring for my own mom
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I do not mind working, either under the agency or private but surprisingly with all the families I have ever worked for they've always wished to have me attend to their loved ones almost like every day. I love my job and I adore the elderly they are my best. They like consistency but apparently, unless its a live-in no agency will keep their "promise" for consistency of about 2 or 4 caregivers. which is a plus to private caregivers, if both parties take care of the required taxes then every senior person would wish to have a consistent care. I am a part time caregiver and we both meet our tax obligations.
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Well , i say anyone can be a caregiver none looks at how elder become babies again . Just like taking care of a new born is the same thing with an elder person . And yes some times it is to trust someone to take care of your loved one's but if you stop to think what makes anyone so sure your loved one's our safe in a nursing home or hospital, haven't you seen how some elders get mess treated , some don't get feed , or some don't get a bath . And these are people that our certificate and are licensed the ones you should hire . And the ones that do get paid cash or under the table whatever you want to call it . Their the ones that are more careful nothing happens cause they don't want to be held responsible for anything. Some people are ready to judge others when only God can do that . Some of you should give others a chance you will be surprised how someone out of an agent company can do just as good as someone that does work for an agency company can . Thank you all may you all have a blessed night.
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