I split the time with my sister. We each have half of the year to take care of her. I don't work, so I am with her 24/7. I do have responsibilities, but can't seem to get all of them done. They use that against me and say I don't work so I have more time. Also, I am questioned with every penny I spend. I should say with every penny Mom spends when she is at our home. We eat out a lot and cost of living is more here. I feel bad sometimes asking to be refunded for her expenses, but it gets to be a lot. This time I put every penny that was spent and it almost doubled for the month. My sister says I should pay for some and I do. I also split the grocery bill 4 ways even though my mom eats 50% of it. What should I do or how do I make my sister understand that I spend more and need more money for Mom than they do? I can't help it that I am blessed and don't have to work, but I still have chores and always replacing rugs and spoons and glasses that my mother breaks and ruins. She needs more attention than people know. Also, I get a babysitter when we are going away for a while. My sister says I should not pay anyone cause she doesn't. How do I address these problems the right way?