My husband's gram has been with us for a little over a year. The dust has settled, she's happy and comfy. It's hard for me, but I'm ok so far. The problem now is the 2 kids of hers that were already given a chance to care for her (and it didn't work out or she wouldn't be here!) They are greedy hateful people and are pissed she took them out of her will and are threatening to take gram's home (we all live there now). This daughter had already tried to sell it when she lived with her on top of draining $50,000 out of her account that gram's husband left for "her care". So Gram figured she got hers early and the son managed to get Gram to co-sign a loan to buy a mobile home because he couldn't properly care for Gram. About 9 months out of the hospital with a traumatic brain injury, which onset the dementia and seizures, he then takes furniture from Gram's house for his/her TV 2 bedroom suites and God knows what else (they both robbed the poor woman in her darkest hour). Now they're both pissed because they get nothing and could care less that their mother is happy, healthy and relatively seizure free with us. Now the son wants the trailer transferred to his name (still paying on loan), the daughter wants the house and I can see this turning into a hot mess. Mind you, I do not get paid for her care. We pay the bills, except her car payment, health and life insurance, which is not enugh to even cover her burial, so we will foot tht bill too, I imagine. Does anyone have any suggestions? I'm sick to think the people who used her and could care less about her wellbeing could take it all from her grandson after we made our life about her because she's like his mother.