My dad, who is 85 in Assisted Living for Parkinson's and dementia, is saying he's going to die soon and is telling me to use his money to pay off my house and donate large amounts to churches. My dad is financially comfortable, I'm his only child and his POA. He is in good health (except for the above conditions). He calls me 3 times a day asking me to do this before he dies. I don't mind donating some money to churches, but not the amounts he wants. And don't feel comfortable taking money now to pay off my house. Eventually his estate will go to me anyway. He doesn't understand or forgets when I tell him this so would it be bad if I just tell him that I did all that he wants to give him some piece of mind? As his POA, I need to make sure he has enough funds for the rest of his life. But as his daughter, I feel that I should honor his wishes. Confused!