My mother is 90 yrs old and still living on her own, But, what do I do when she needs a place to live. I love her very much and would pay for someone to care for her but she wants to live with me but we have never been able to get along. I have always helped her financially but I am disabled and she hates me being in bed. She expects me to sit up all day and entertain her, prepare her meals and and be there as if I were her nurse. And if I come to my room t rest, she is offended and says I am not taking care of her. But, she is able to do for hers self. She believes because she lives with me (her daughter) I should treat her as a guest in my home and if I don't, she thinks she is being neglected. But, what about my peace and quiet and rest and sanity? I don't think they would allow her in a nursing home because she would not get along with a roommate or the staff. So, what do daughters do with mothers like this. I hate feeling guilty?