Know that is not an option. I don't wish to wave the white flag yet on this one.
We are finally coming to an understanding about sitting when using the toilet during the day rather than trying to stand up and then miss. He still at times tries to get over on the extra help or hope I do not remember. But oh yes I remember.
The problem now is during the night. I see where he has gotten up and used the pot because urine is in there but my eyes of seeing him exposed after the fact works my nerves (like what if your granddaughter walks in to check on you instead of me) and darn it, now we have wet clothes and at times that includes the bed. His underwear perfectly dry.
Yesterday, it was like put your situation back in your underwear. He goes no because now I'm wet. I'm like exactly you have to bath anyway, so put it away. He refused. I go get my gloves and let him see me putting them on before pulling his pants and underwear out so gravity lets the situation fall back in place.
Fast forward to today. Same morning issue. Here comes the little threat. It would be a shame that you not using the underwear or putting up lands you back in the nursing home. Such a small issue. So this morning he tells me, I didn't do that. I go then who did? He goes it was not me.
Sigh! Anyone?
Thank God he slept all the way through last night. No wet bed or clothes. I was able to get him up at 5:00 this morning to make the restroom.
Now pray for me, I'm trying to ease him into #2 without an explosion.
If it is PJ's that he is wearing sewing snaps to the bottom of the top and the top of the bottoms and snapping the two together would make it more difficult to get into as well.