I have an Aunt and Uncle on the east coast that need to live in an assisted living facility. I am in California. Just found out that APS has been involved in their case for over a month. They are refusing all help, one probably has Alzheimer's and the other is either having a mental breakdown or dimentia. Neighbor's just found out about us and contacted us and the police have been involved as my aunt was found wandering the streets at 2 am. They are skipping doctors appointment and I have absolutely no idea of their level of competency or their financial situation. Social worker has noted self neglect and the police have documented memory issues. I am lost as to where to begin.