My husband is her only son. YES, my husband is adamant on her leaving as I am. Any suggestions?

FedupinCO, when you answer to your original post, please answer back on https://www.agingcare.com/questions/my-mother-in-law-is-97-years-old-she-refuses-all-help-from-medicaid-or-doctors-she-wont-use-a-walker-479922.htm

You've now got 3 posts going at the same time. You have 30 minutes to edit a post and add to it so forum users will know what you're talking about. 3 separate posts are unlikely to get your message across. You can also respond to a question directly on the post where you're being asked a question, which will cut down on confusion.