Can I pay myself for mom’s room/board and caregiving?

Thanks!

Yes you can, but since Mom is not competent to sign a Caregiver’s Agreement, you may need to enlist the services of an attorney. If she ever comes to the point of needing Medicaid, if there is no paperwork in place and you cannot prove that the money you paid yourself was for taking care of your mother, she could be denied because it will be assumed by Medicaid that she gifted you the money.