Blood tests show I have same disease as very sick mom. How do I manage us both?

Whatever your illnesses are, you best find an NH for mom.

Can you give us more information?

I agree with JoAnn29:

As they say on the airlines, "PUT YOUR OXYGEN MASK ON FIRST, so you can help others who can not put on their oxygen mask.

You will be no good to your mother emotionally or physically, if you are too ill to care for her.

Anonymous723219 what does your mother have if you don't mind my asking?

I also agree with JoAnn29!

I agree with JoAnn29. 100%.

I think you need to make other arrangements for Mom. Time for a nursing home. You need to take care of yourself. Stress will weaken your immune system.