Hi there! For the last year I have noticed changes in my parents behavior, she has almost no patience, gets angry easily (mostly at me) frustrated at situations and cries over them rather than problem solving, cries over little things, is mean, has no financial smarts and spends money recklessly, and has had some memory problems, and also seems different around friends (such as a lack of caring to get to know them..see how they are, and just talks over them). She also seems to lack judgement, she lets almost anyone drive her car and had it almost completely totaled and has been without a car for 2 months, had she been in the passengers seat she may not be around. The problem for me is she retired years ago, overseas so I only see her 1-2 times a year. She has her own home but allows “couch surfers” to visit her and stay with her for free so they help her out with cooking, cleaning, run her errands etc. I can’t tell if she’s just getting older and dealing with some normal “getting older” problems and behaviors or if it’s more, She also has good days & bad days where she seems fine and then I think I’m crazy. My husband has also noticed these changes in her as well. Her dad passed away from dementia several years ago at the age of 90. Any advice or if anyone can help steer me in the right direction would be helpful.