Our LO has began to not be able to make it to the restroom. Last night was the first time my SO has had to clean up and it was incredibly hard to see him so broken up over it. We've finally got family members (spread across three different states) to see that he is not in perfect health any more and that this is a lot harder for SO than some have realized. Again we are incredibly young for this.
I was privately talking to my boyfriend's sister who helped me get the up coming difficult conversations going. We are finally meeting with an in home assistant next week so we will have some help. They are also going to bring up the topic of Assisted Living but the decision is entirely on my SO. He feels that his LO's future, happiness, and well being is resting on his shoulders and there's no way for me or anyone to lessen this burden. Our LO saved his life as a baby and now he needs to return the favor. I saw both of them cry and wish for their wife and grandmother(adopted mother) to be alive and it breaks my entire heart. Prayers and kind thoughts for my loved ones greatly appreciated.