I am just so very depressed over this whole situation with my Mom. I only wanted to give her the best life I could for her remaining years. I know that we never had that Mother/Daughter relationship that I so longed for all my life, but I also was not going to turn my back on her when she needed care. I tried everything and did everything in my power to take good care of her. I tried to build a relationship on nothing. Now she has been placed in a SNF and unfortunately can never return to my home. The allegations aren't worth the risk that she poses. I, as much as I should, cannot hate her. My heart aches for her and I just cannot understand why. When the accusations/allegations started last week, I was shocked, angry and hurt, but now I am just completely depressed. A lot of the people on this forum have been very supportive to me and I appreciate your advice. I guess I am grieving for myself and for something that I wanted more than anything ... A Mother.