My mom and dad live in an apartment attached to our house. She's 81 and he's 80. There are days I just feel sad about my situation. The thing is I created this situation for myself. My husband and I offered for my parents to move into the apartment and they of course did. Now I have this huge thing going on that's going to get huger all the time. I know it will! I get thinking about the future and get a little freaked out about it.