This part is hard.
Ugh. Had an all=nighter. She is finally calming down now. I realized something, when she is irritated and I am trying to help her, this only irritates her more. So I have to approach her with an upbeat and happy attitude to get her out of her anger and accepting of help. I wasn't angry with her, just calm, but that didn't do it. I really admire people who can get out of themselves to do this. I don't think I can keep doing it for much longer.