She does not take good care of herself, obese and diabetic. We thought she would come home stronger than she did as she does live alone. We knew she would need help with meals, bathing, and wound care. But she requires assist from wheelchair to chairs, assist to stand, assist off the toilet. This is not what she needs to be able to live alone, even with support.
We have first year empty nest, slight marital difficulty, strained relationship between husband and his mother so I resent that she is home, and I feel guilty for the resentment. That makes me a yucky person. Feel like a yucky person.