Siblings ganging up on me behind my back, HELP!
I am here living with mum and caring for her for last 4yrs. I have a brother down the road who is no support whatsoever? a sister lives 2hrs away dosnt want to know? a sister who lives abroad and causes nothing but trouble and stress and thnakfully a very supportive brother also abroad.
My sister and bro are coming home this wkend so we can discuss mums future?
Ive just been speaking to my sis on phone and ALREADY shes causing trouble she let slip that she has been talking to my brother who lives close by behind my back? and they seem to think they are calling all the shots, she even told me that I should live where its convienient for her and my brother to visit mum??
My bro lives down the road he pops in once every 10 days and does the ODD repair? Never spwnds time with mum or brings her anywhere?
My sister lives abroad and flits in once or twice a year to spend little time with mum and spends more time with friends having coffees?
My christian sister hasnt even called after she was told mums got dementia?
The only person that gives a crap here is me and if im going to look after mum and am the only one who can care for her then its where I want to live and have my own life.
If my mum goes into a NH near here she will be on her own with a brother who will not visit everyday take her out etc..
My sister comes home 2 a year?
Other bro agrees with me lukily!
I am so angry and theyre not even here yet?
Any advice? Even my sleeping pills not working damn!