This is when the person has resently retired or has disabilities that forced retirement but able to living independently.
If you as a daughter have the caregiving mentality and you want to be available presently (you will have frequent family contacts...your "caregiving" has started. If you see, your abilities not being adequate in the future. Engage your parent to look into the future and both come up with possabilities. There will come a time when I can not do it anymore...what would you like to do? (get him or her involved). If your relationship has and continues to be disfunctional you have to have some counsel to alter your behavior and this takes time. The whole thing changes if you are "greedy" and you want as much possable....your parent will be either agreeing or disagreeing. That money is for "care". If you get your name on the property 5 years before he has spent his resourses it is no longer a resourse. The "stay at home no matter what" may always be in a persons mind. If your family was and is disfunctional you need some counsel to change your ways and the results will be "a peaceful mind". This takes time.