Hello I'm Joshua and i'm 17 years old. I am online schooled because I want to graduate early (which i am, i am graduating this December, a semester early and going to collage in the spring), I also am home schooled to take care of my grand mother. now I made a post before describing my situation. So if you want the back story look at my other post. But this question is something specific. Before I get into it thoe i would like to say my mother and I are addressing these problems with my grand mother to the best of ability. But I am turning to this community for help and support. It's just that I am home all the time so i am always the prime target for her abuse. But getting into the topic what is wrong with my grand mother. I don't mean this in a derogatory way, but I cant think of another way to put it. You see before i was taking care of her non stop. I cooked for her, gave her her pills, and did anything she asked. This was when I posted my first question. But about 1 week after I askedmy question she is fine. I mean like I went to bed Sunday night she is still week and fragile. Then on Monday morning she is up cooking for her self, taking care of her self, not falling, walking with out her walker, and I'm like what..... I'm happy to see her up again, but how do you go from me having to take care of you all day and tucking you in at night so you don't fall out of bed. To up, walking around with out your walker, eating fine, cooking, and generally doing things you did not before. She still however thinks that their are people inside the house, and that their is conspierousy against her, and that I do things that I don't. She blames me for small stuff like drinking her juice to big stuff like having people call her. She also is very abusive by being nice one monument then mean the next, she calls me names, and threatens to do stuff like have me arrested or throne into a boys home for nothing i did. So my question is basically what do you as a community think is wrong with my grand mother, and how do I help her? I am only 17 and their is only so much I know about this stuff. Do you have any coping ideas on how I can deal with my grand mother? Is my grandmother abusive?, Is it my fault?, is she mentally ill?, Can she call the police and get me arrested for something I did not do? I know their is only so much you can do or tell me, but anything is helpful. If you need more info ask questions and I will respond for more details.