Hello to all. My Father's dementia got much worse last year. He has a long time partner that is his full time caregiver and POA she also lives beside him. We tried a home health aid but he didn't like people coming into the house and they were not well trained in dementia care. He needs to go into a facility but doesn't want to. I'm out of state and I don't know what to do. He gave his caregiver POA and health POA years ago. She has been in charge of his finances for years. Now that he's difficult and needs 24/7 care she wants me to take over. I suggested facilities, another home agency, transferring him to my state, adult day care but she keeps saying she wants me to be the one to put him in a facility in his current state. What can I do for them I'm out of state with no POA. Any thoughts are welcome.