I wish that I had been an eldercare lawyer so I could know what to do to help families (like mine and those of friends) get through the labyrinth of gov't forms (who wrote that incomprehensible mess, anyway?) and file all the weird required things to help a loved one have decent care and a happy senior time regardless of illness or dementia or whatever. I am so frustrated that I could eat glass. I would not want to be paid for this service beyond office supplies and postage. Anyone else feel this way? If so, let's find a way to help those of us and others with loved ones who need care. Suggestions?