We have been having many issues within our family with my sister being too controlling with my mother. She has installed cameras in the house to watch everyone's every move and does not allow them to be turned off even if I'm there caring for her. When I did unplug the camera, she called the police on me. They obviously didn't do anything but tell us to figure it out with the social worker. She won't share my mother's banking information or statements with me, medical information, or anything for that matter. She wants to be in complete control of everything. Because of all this, we no longer speak unless its an emergency or to argue.
My mother is not happy with all of the drama going on and was recently tricked into speaking to an attorney. She was told by my sister that she was taking her to a doctor's appointment, which was not the truth. My mother was very upset by this and is now afraid to go to any appointments with my sister in fear of being tricked again.
My sister is attempting to get POA of my mother, but my mother has already told me she does not want that at all and wants my sister to stop creating problems. Is there anything I can do to prevent this from happening? We also have a brother and he doesn't feel she should have that power.
This is something my sister has done over and over again with previous family members. She takes them to court and tries to win complete control and manipulates everyone so that she gets her way. We've attempted to talk and come to a compromise but she does not want to do anything other than get her way.
Any assistance is greatly appreciated.